15 Things I’ve Learned From Dating

Ivelisse Torres
1 min readFeb 14, 2023

If someone is genuinely interested, they will show it. No matter how busy or chaotic their life is, people prioritize who they want and what they want.

Boundaries are important. Be firm with them. If someone treats them as a suggestion, they will follow suit and treat you as such.

If you genuinely feel like something is off, it is. Trust your intuition

Learn your love language.

Learn their love language.

Agree to disagree.

Rejection is a vital part of dating. However, it doesn’t mean you failed; you’re on the right track to finding who you want to be with.

If you compromise who you are to make someone comfortable, they’re not for you.

Sex is an exchange of energy. Therefore, who you choose to be intimate with will significantly impact your overall energy.

Ask questions; the more you know, the better.

Give the energy given to you, not more, not less.

Communication is vital. Be honest about your likes, dislikes, turn-ons, and turn-offs.

If you feel like you have to go through their phone or constantly check on them through social media, the trust is broken, and so is that relationship.

Become the person you aspire to be to attract the person you want to be with.

Just because someone is perfect on paper doesn’t mean they’re perfect for you.

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Ivelisse Torres

Since I can remember, my greatest joy has come from helping people. I hope that my writing can help you as it begins to heal me.